What is the worst thing you've ever done

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:09 PM

... to the opposite sex? ...and do you regret it?

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 03:22 PM

Whoa nelly! Great thread.

I'll get started. I was dating a girl through my first two years of college, got wind that her best friend (since age 4) really liked me, dumped my girlfriend and started dating the best friend.

I now call the best friend my wife, and we are very happily married and have a baby. Seems harsh when you sum it up like that.

It hit her pretty hard, and for a while I regretted it BIG TIME and so did my wife. In fact, we kind of had a laying low period where we just felt too guilty about it. But I didn't cheat, I was straight up about it. And I was never going to marry her anyway, we just weren't right for one another in the end, and we never would have worked out in the long run.

But now? I don't regret it any longer. I think, considering how great things turned out for me and considering the great life I have with my wife and child, the real shame would have been NOT pursuing that relationship. And it's been 8 or 9 years since that breakup; and my ex has moved on and has her own life. By now, I'm no longer a blip on her radar. So it all worked out in the end, but for a while there, there was serious regret. But my wife and I are very happy together, and I couldn't trade that for anything in the world.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:25 PM

...regret for being honest? .. you did the right thing! Welcome to the pearly gates!

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 03:25 PM

PS Hess, no fair starting the thread and not sharing! Make with the low-down!

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by hesscl34

...regret for being honest? .. you did the right thing! Welcome to the pearly gates!

Thanks, I guess I don't have it in me to cheat on somebody. But still, there's that whole code that you don't date best friends when it's a serious relationship, especially not without a major grace period. Pretty much tore the friendship between my wife and my ex right in half. They don't speak anymore, obviously.

But like I said, I can't regret it now.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:34 PM

I wish I had some really, juicy tale to tell… but I haven’t been “not nice” to very many people. I guess once when I was 17 I had been dating a guy in high-school for 2yrs. When I went on my Senior beach trip I cheated on him, with the man I ended up marrying like 6yrs later. I really didn't consider it cheating though because we were in the process of breaking up. Oh, and I found out later he had slept with my best friend when we were dating and never told me. It was just a hook up one night and they both kept it from me, so I really didn’t feel bad about cheating on him when I found that out!!

Sammy Baugh Fan · 05-17-2007, 03:38 PM

I stole a chicken off a lady's porch. It was frozen and thawing and I was hitchhiking across country.

Steal just one Chicken and they can call you a Chicken Thief for life. Geez.

Truedat!
peace

And yes I have asked for forgivness tho not that lady in that other state and repaid back many more than just 7 chickens. lol

peace

dmek25 · 05-17-2007, 03:41 PM

i must be an angel. though i have dated plenty, i guess im just good hearted by nature. have always been up front with the women i have been with

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:44 PM

you guys lie like crazy, I don't believe it!

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hesscl34

... to the opposite sex? ...and do you regret it?

no comment too bad i was a horrible person

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hesscl34

you guys lie like crazy, I don't believe it!

girls lie too hess

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 03:48 PM

Oh, once when I was 10 I took a wiffle ball bat and whacked my babysitter on the ass and the back of the legs a good five times while she was tying my younger brother's shoes. She had major welts and refused to come back to babysit us ever again. That's what she gets for not being a hot babysitter, though. The next babysitter we got was pretty hot, I never hit her with anything.

I could go on and on about the stuff I did as a kid.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:48 PM

that's true, we do... but not as often!

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

no comment too bad i was a horrible person

Have you ever asked yourself why? were you just being selfish?

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hesscl34

that's true, we do... but not as often!

yeah ur lies are just alot bigger

05-17-2007, 03:09 PM	#1
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	What is the worst thing you've ever done ... to the opposite sex? ...and do you regret it?

05-17-2007, 03:22 PM	#2
Schneed10 A Dude Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Newtown Square, PA Age: 45 Posts: 12,421	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done Whoa nelly! Great thread. I'll get started. I was dating a girl through my first two years of college, got wind that her best friend (since age 4) really liked me, dumped my girlfriend and started dating the best friend. I now call the best friend my wife, and we are very happily married and have a baby. Seems harsh when you sum it up like that. It hit her pretty hard, and for a while I regretted it BIG TIME and so did my wife. In fact, we kind of had a laying low period where we just felt too guilty about it. But I didn't cheat, I was straight up about it. And I was never going to marry her anyway, we just weren't right for one another in the end, and we never would have worked out in the long run. But now? I don't regret it any longer. I think, considering how great things turned out for me and considering the great life I have with my wife and child, the real shame would have been NOT pursuing that relationship. And it's been 8 or 9 years since that breakup; and my ex has moved on and has her own life. By now, I'm no longer a blip on her radar. So it all worked out in the end, but for a while there, there was serious regret. But my wife and I are very happy together, and I couldn't trade that for anything in the world. __________________ God made certain people to play football. He was one of them.

05-17-2007, 03:25 PM	#3
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done ...regret for being honest? .. you did the right thing! Welcome to the pearly gates!

05-17-2007, 03:25 PM	#4
Schneed10 A Dude Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Newtown Square, PA Age: 45 Posts: 12,421	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done PS Hess, no fair starting the thread and not sharing! Make with the low-down! __________________ God made certain people to play football. He was one of them.

05-17-2007, 03:34 PM	#6
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done I wish I had some really, juicy tale to tell… but I haven’t been “not nice” to very many people. I guess once when I was 17 I had been dating a guy in high-school for 2yrs. When I went on my Senior beach trip I cheated on him, with the man I ended up marrying like 6yrs later. I really didn't consider it cheating though because we were in the process of breaking up. Oh, and I found out later he had slept with my best friend when we were dating and never told me. It was just a hook up one night and they both kept it from me, so I really didn’t feel bad about cheating on him when I found that out!!

05-17-2007, 03:38 PM	#7
Sammy Baugh Fan Playmaker Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Northern Virginia, Woodbridge Age: 62 Posts: 2,507	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done I stole a chicken off a lady's porch. It was frozen and thawing and I was hitchhiking across country. Steal just one Chicken and they can call you a Chicken Thief for life. Geez. Truedat! peace And yes I have asked for forgivness tho not that lady in that other state and repaid back many more than just 7 chickens. lol peace __________________ Check out Mike Hedrick - The Next Food Network Star. Please Click and give me a Thumbs Up and Positive Comment. Thanks

05-17-2007, 03:41 PM	#8
dmek25 MVP Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: lancaster,pa Age: 63 Posts: 10,672	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done i must be an angel. though i have dated plenty, i guess im just good hearted by nature. have always been up front with the women i have been with __________________ "It's better to be quiet and thought a fool than to open ones mouth and remove all doubt." courtesy of 53fan

05-17-2007, 03:44 PM	#9
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done you guys lie like crazy, I don't believe it!

05-17-2007, 03:48 PM	#12
Schneed10 A Dude Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Newtown Square, PA Age: 45 Posts: 12,421	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done Oh, once when I was 10 I took a wiffle ball bat and whacked my babysitter on the ass and the back of the legs a good five times while she was tying my younger brother's shoes. She had major welts and refused to come back to babysit us ever again. That's what she gets for not being a hot babysitter, though. The next babysitter we got was pretty hot, I never hit her with anything. I could go on and on about the stuff I did as a kid. __________________ God made certain people to play football. He was one of them.

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