[SmootSmack]

I appreciate all the advice guys...How about advice for the wedding itself? What are the things we need to look for. I know basics like the venue, the caterer, the photographer. And in what order should I be looking for them, and how far in advance? And I've heard the wedding is the bride's family's responsibility, the reception is the groom's, is that true? How do are the tasks divided?

Sorry for so many questions, but this is all very new to me. Even though the wedding isn't until August I don't want us to fall behind on anything