We always have it at my house.
Mother in law and my old maid sister in laws come over.
My sons stop by at some point to watch some football with me.
The women cook and do the dishes just like god planned it.

I prepare all the appetizer platters and snacks and stuff. I'm big on imported cheeses and different kinds of pickles and olives.
I have a case of random micro brews on stand by and some Boddingtons ale.
My sister in law is bringing some micros from the Chicago area including a mini keg of DAB (german beer).
Sweet yams from the last couple of years have been awesome.