warriorzpath:
My comment wasn't aimed at you. I meant to say that all too often we think about things in either/or fashion where no middle ground is considered "in play". That makes for irrational arguments where rational discussions could happen - - on Internet sites as well as in real life.
This particular "debate topic" is one that often devolves into an "either/or" mode very quickly. I was only trying to point out that sometimes the best answer lies somewhere between the two choices.
Since you said you "aim to please", that reminded me of a very old joke about the sign in a men's public restroom from the restroom attendants:
WE AIM TO PLEASE.
YOU AIM TOO, PLEASE.