AITAH: Am I the A**hole Here?

So a popular discussion website has a thread titled "AITA: Am I the A**hole?" where people will post a story and ask the question .. am I the a**hole in this situation? Something happened yesterday that made me wonder whether perhaps I was the a hole in the situation.

After work I stop by my beer store. The parking lot was pretty full as the first 8-10 rows had cars parked in them. So I park about 12 spots up the aisle. As I get out and start walking, I see a car pull in to the lot, stop for a second then park in a handicap spot.

By the time the guy is getting out I was walking past his car. He was a young 20 something guy. No handicap plates or card hanging from the mirror. Seemed like a fit young guy who hopped out of his car no problem.

I am maybe 5 steps ahead of him. Hes following behind me and apparently going into the beer store as well.

I get to the door, open it then make sure I close it not right in his face but basically right in his face.

Am I the a**hole here?

If anything happened to you where you question it, post it here and well let you know if you were the A hole or not.

So you closed the door on him but you're wondering if that was right? I'm confused as to why you didn't hold it open.

I didnt hold it open for him bc I got the impression he was a young non-handicap guy and just parked in the handicap spot bc he was lazy.

I didnt hold it open for him bc I got the impression he was a young non-handicap guy and just parked in the handicap spot bc he was lazy.

lol ok I see now

I'd say your action was justified then

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

no but sometimes it feels good

I didnt hold it open for him bc I got the impression he was a young non-handicap guy and just parked in the handicap spot bc he was lazy.

See you know why he is an ass, he hasn't a clue as to why you where to him,see my point?

My hesitation and half regret is that not all handicaps are visible and I shouldnt assume and judge based off of a 20 second observation

it felt good though. I think going into the beer store was the final straw. If we were walking into a grocery store or something I would have held the door open.

Just something about going to get beer caused my last second decision to be a d*ck.

giantone -- I see your point and its a good point. I didnt look back but it was demonstrative and blatant. he had to know.

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If anyone has a situation, post away.

Any time I had a fight with my ex GF would qualify after the argument ended but before it was resolved or we just moved on.