Advice On Women Thread.

You guys think too much. Just let things ride and if you fall for her or she falls for your then it is what it is. If she moves away then thats a part of life but to try and live life by trying to control your emotions and feelings is boring.

You guys think too much. Just let things ride and if you fall for her or she falls for your then it is what it is. If she moves away then thats a part of life but to try and live life by trying to control your emotions and feelings is boring.


I agree with this, the whole only see her twice a week rule sounds really dumb and childish. What if you bump into her at the Metro and it is the third time that week, do you jump on the tracks to avoid the third visit????


I don't miss being single so many mind games!

Because honestly there are some things I can't stand about this chick. But generally speaking I love her to death. Know what I mean?

But def not next level intentions here. Maybe I'm just bored and I need something to fill my mind?Those won't go away over time, only be magnified, and you'll probably find more stuff you can't stand about her. Enjoy the time you have with her for what it is, make this decision with your head, and when it's time to move on, move on (saden's 100% right about not being petty and immature, do it on your terms).

When you find the right one and the timing is right, you'll know. This one doesn't sound like she's it. Good luck.

Now we've broken things off, but remain very much in each other's space and talk all the time. The reason we decided to break things off is because we both agreed that if the other wanted to date someone else and it got serious, we would stop end it and stop having sex. I've since created more rules to keep my heart from being broken. I don't want to talk to her more than twice a week, but she's not complying. She finds a reason to text, email, call or we see each other at friends house. She's been seeing some asshole for two weeks, and it didn't work out. So here we are.

You can't be in this kind of relationship with someone you have feelings for. So, either tell her that, or just let it go.

Per your usual, you're making a reasonable and sound argument. And I totally agree with you. But how do you know someone is marry material before you know? True, I'm not going to marry this girl but I'm not with anyone else either. So I'm kind of in no man's land.

It might not be until November before she figures out exactly where she'll end up.

This was a question I was wondering. Then one day I was at a bar (surprise surprise) with a buddy. the bar was empty except for us and the bartender we were cool with. then walks in this girl, she sits down starts pounding miller lites and is laughing and talking with the bartender whom she was friends with aswell.

im looking over at her and am like "damn, i wish that was my girl, cute, havin fun, not taking life to serious". i didnt mean a girl like that, i meant that girl. something inside of me just said thats the one right there for ya buddy.

at the time i was living with another girl, a total bitch. i tried breaking up with her many times to no avail, she was a she-devil. one day she said she was pregnant, had this black n white sonogram of a fetus in a picture frame engraved OTM's first baby. things just were not adding up. a few weeks later i found her invitro fertilization papers and kicked her out of the house.

a few weeks later, i was at that same bar, the miller lite girl was there, i took her out to dinner and since then we have been living together.

i guess my point is, and im sure you heard this before b/c i did, if you have to ask the question of "is this the one" or "how do you know", well then my friend, you already know the answer.

when you meet the one, you will know. she will knock you to the floor. you will have no doubts. your world, your life, your existence, what you want to do on any given night suddenly have the same answer. shes your world, your life, you exist to protect and grow old with her, your doing her on any given night.

thats where i am now. the whole kids thing is the next step. what we have now is perfect, i have ideas of watching my brothers and others with their kids and how that just gives two people who love each another, even more intense focus of that love . . . but man, freeak, screaming kids, no money for the honey, your life is suddenly about this lil baby that is a creation and extension of you and your lady. and all this lil love child does is scream and poop. then at 3-4 it gets all demanding. then at 13 it tells you it hates your guts every day. then at 18 it garnishes your wages so it can get drunk and party and say it is studying but the lil f'er is 200 miles away and you have no way of knowing. then it turns 21ish and suddenly loves you again.

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...but man, freeak, screaming kids, no money for the honey, your life is suddenly about this lil baby that is a creation and extension of you and your lady. and all this lil love child does is scream and poop. then at 3-4 it gets all demanding. then at 13 it tells you it hates your guts every day. then at 18 it garnishes your wages so it can get drunk and party and say it is studying but the lil f'er is 200 miles away and you have no way of knowing. then it turns 21ish and suddenly loves you again.

This was a question I was wondering. Then one day I was at a bar (surprise surprise) with a buddy. the bar was empty except for us and the bartender we were cool with. then walks in this girl, she sits down starts pounding miller lites and is laughing and talking with the bartender whom she was friends with aswell.

im looking over at her and am like "damn, i wish that was my girl, cute, havin fun, not taking life to serious". i didnt mean a girl like that, i meant that girl. something inside of me just said thats the one right there for ya buddy.

at the time i was living with another girl, a total bitch. i tried breaking up with her many times to no avail, she was a she-devil. one day she said she was pregnant, had this black n white sonogram of a fetus in a picture frame engraved OTM's first baby. things just were not adding up. a few weeks later i found her invitro fertilization papers and kicked her out of the house.

a few weeks later, i was at that same bar, the miller lite girl was there, i took her out to dinner and since then we have been living together.

i guess my point is, and im sure you heard this before b/c i did, if you have to ask the question of "is this the one" or "how do you know", well then my friend, you already know the answer.

when you meet the one, you will know. she will knock you to the floor. you will have no doubts. your world, your life, your existence, what you want to do on any given night suddenly have the same answer. shes your world, your life, you exist to protect and grow old with her, your doing her on any given night.

thats where i am now. the whole kids thing is the next step. what we have now is perfect, i have ideas of watching my brothers and others with their kids and how that just gives two people who love each another, even more intense focus of that love . . . but man, freeak, screaming kids, no money for the honey, your life is suddenly about this lil baby that is a creation and extension of you and your lady. and all this lil love child does is scream and poop. then at 3-4 it gets all demanding. then at 13 it tells you it hates your guts every day. then at 18 it garnishes your wages so it can get drunk and party and say it is studying but the lil f'er is 200 miles away and you have no way of knowing. then it turns 21ish and suddenly loves you again.


LOOOL....did she beat you too?

This was a question I was wondering. Then one day I was at a bar (surprise surprise) with a buddy. the bar was empty except for us and the bartender we were cool with. then walks in this girl, she sits down starts pounding miller lites and is laughing and talking with the bartender whom she was friends with aswell.

im looking over at her and am like "damn, i wish that was my girl, cute, havin fun, not taking life to serious". i didnt mean a girl like that, i meant that girl. something inside of me just said thats the one right there for ya buddy.

at the time i was living with another girl, a total bitch. i tried breaking up with her many times to no avail, she was a she-devil. one day she said she was pregnant, had this black n white sonogram of a fetus in a picture frame engraved OTM's first baby. things just were not adding up. a few weeks later i found her invitro fertilization papers and kicked her out of the house.

a few weeks later, i was at that same bar, the miller lite girl was there, i took her out to dinner and since then we have been living together.

i guess my point is, and im sure you heard this before b/c i did, if you have to ask the question of "is this the one" or "how do you know", well then my friend, you already know the answer.

when you meet the one, you will know. she will knock you to the floor. you will have no doubts. your world, your life, your existence, what you want to do on any given night suddenly have the same answer. shes your world, your life, you exist to protect and grow old with her, your doing her on any given night.

thats where i am now. the whole kids thing is the next step. what we have now is perfect, i have ideas of watching my brothers and others with their kids and how that just gives two people who love each another, even more intense focus of that love . . . but man, freeak, screaming kids, no money for the honey, your life is suddenly about this lil baby that is a creation and extension of you and your lady. and all this lil love child does is scream and poop. then at 3-4 it gets all demanding. then at 13 it tells you it hates your guts every day. then at 18 it garnishes your wages so it can get drunk and party and say it is studying but the lil f'er is 200 miles away and you have no way of knowing. then it turns 21ish and suddenly loves you again.

She is named the miller lite girl because she has a beer belly and always drinking miller lite? Sounds like a real catch.

FD watch what you type my friend, you know better. she drinks miller lite, doesnt have a beer belly.

FD watch what you type my friend, you know better. she drinks miller lite, doesnt have a beer belly.

You do know I was joking? We need pics to confrim.