JoeRedskin
06-30-2010, 02:00 PM
My kids are the joy of my life. Just thinking of this feels like a punch in the gut with a sledgehammer. Prayers to the family.
When you have children, particularly small children, life is a constant balance of joy and terror with a fine line dividing them.
skinschamp
06-30-2010, 02:13 PM
man, horrible story
Man that sucks, My prayers for the family =/
JoeRedskin
06-30-2010, 02:13 PM
I second all the stories of kids getting into stuff, getting out of secure places, or just plain getting into trouble even when supervised. As a parent, you just can't child-proof the world. It takes just a moment - even with things you think are routinely okay.
About a week ago my son (7) was going down the steps - long, narrowish stairwell, hard wooden steps, does it every morning. That morning he is in front of me, chatting away, joking with me, and missteps on the top step. He is three feet away, just out of reach and, as if in a bad dream, I watch him tumble (literally) down the steps in slow motion, banging his head, going at crazy angles before coming to a rest at the bottom. He came out of it scared, shaken up but with only a couple bruises. Scared the living crap out of me!
The death of child is about the most traumatic thing that can happen to a couple. For their sake, I hope Randle and his wife find the strength to deal with this together.
Mechanix544
06-30-2010, 02:25 PM
worst possible thing to happen to an individual. My heart goes out to you and your family Randall.
InsaneBoost
06-30-2010, 03:28 PM
Man that's really sad, you ALWAYS have to watch kids not matter what, especially around pools and in the kitchen.
I remember during Thanksgiving one of my cousins children was playing around the stove and there was a big grease pan up top cooling off. He had wrapped something around the handle, forget what, and it just about poured all over him. Thankfully my Aunt yelled and I jumped up, otherwise it could have been a bad situation.
NYCskinfan82
06-30-2010, 04:00 PM
My prayers go out to his family.
Hamoskinz
06-30-2010, 06:23 PM
Tragic. I cannot imagine the grief of losing a young child in such a manner. Last week, a mother lost her child when the boy left her side while they were doing chores in their garden. He was found drown in the sea, next to their house - about 8 minutes later.That's why I never leave my kids unsupervised, at all times.
I hope my last sentence doesn't come out as finger pointing or condescending. I can see this tragedy happening to me, no matter how vigilant you are it only takes a moment for an accident to happen. I've had my shares of near misses, of which I would have severely regretted had it eventuated.
SmootSmack
06-30-2010, 06:32 PM
I was that kid in the pool once, if not for my cousin's quick actions I doubt I'd be here to post this. And it's not like I was alone. The whole family was with me, but all it takes is a couple of seconds of no one looking and tragedy can happen
budw38
06-30-2010, 06:36 PM
This is the worst news a parent will ever receive . Very sad , my heart goes out to the Cunningham family .
tryfuhl
07-01-2010, 01:07 AM
Absolutely horrible. I can't even begin to imagine the feeling. I always fear losing a little brother for some strange reason and have no clue what it would be like to do that, much less a child. I imagine that my will to continue wouldn't be very strong at the time.