SmootSmack
02-02-2010, 01:22 PM
Tragic. RIP
Wife of ex-Cowboys player Jay Novacek found dead after apparent suicide | Dallas Cowboys News | Sports News | News for Dallas, Texas | Dallas Morning News (http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/spt/football/cowboys/stories/020210dnsponovacek.d6b3e56c.html)
GMScud
02-02-2010, 02:13 PM
That's awful. Suicide is such a tragedy on so many levels. I can't imagine the dark depths your mind must sink to in order to go through with such a thing. Not to mention what it does to your friends and family. Just terrible.
I've always contended that suicide is a selfish act, but I guess that's easy for someone to say who has never been mentally driven to the brink like that.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Novacek family.
53Fan
02-02-2010, 02:20 PM
That's terrible. I feel for the family. I wonder if she had tried to get any counceling?
mredskins
02-02-2010, 02:35 PM
That's awful. Suicide is such a tragedy on so many levels. I can't imagine the dark depths your mind must sink to in order to go through with such a thing. Not to mention what it does to your friends and family. Just terrible.
I've always contended that suicide is a selfish act, but I guess that's easy for someone to say who has never been mentally driven to the brink like that.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Novacek family.
Totally correct! It is the easy way out and everyone else is left with your mess to clean up.
My uncle committed suicide and I saw his four daughters and wife just crumble. He destroyed 6 lives with that one selfish act.
Interesting film to watch about suicide.
YouTube - The Bridge - Trailer
dmek25
02-02-2010, 02:39 PM
That's awful. Suicide is such a tragedy on so many levels. I can't imagine the dark depths your mind must sink to in order to go through with such a thing. Not to mention what it does to your friends and family. Just terrible.
I've always contended that suicide is a selfish act, but I guess that's easy for someone to say who has never been mentally driven to the brink like that.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Novacek family.
exactly. i used to think that it was the ultimate of selfishness, but i cannot fathom being in that much agony to take ones live
NYCskinfan82
02-02-2010, 03:43 PM
A very selfish act, i can't imagine what she's going through but now her family is destroyed.
PennSkinsFan
02-02-2010, 03:49 PM
A very selfish act, i can't imagine what she's going through but now her family is destroyed.
As often as it is. Suicide is the easy way out for what people perceive to be problems they cant fix. What they do is devastate and destroy those that just wanted to love them. The only way I can possibly ever understand it is if it actually is resultant from mental illness. But to just 'escape' problems creates horrific problem for those that are left.
mredskins
02-02-2010, 04:08 PM
When I watch Intervention, if some of those folks on their off themselves it may be for the better of the family. There are worst ways to destroy your family then suicide.
Riggo44
02-02-2010, 04:15 PM
Very sad news my prayers go out to the Novacek family.
Mc2guy
02-02-2010, 04:19 PM
Suicide is the ultimate manifestation of a "disease" known as depression. If you have never had to deal with a family member with depression, or dealt with it yourself, you have no idea what a grip that disease can have on a human mind. It is a mental illness on par with schizophrenia.
For the folks that do carry through with suicide, generally their illness makes them truly believe that ending their life will benefit others. They do not see that it will harm others, rather they see their continuing to live as harming others. Warped as it is, that is their perception.
It is easy to get angry with those with depression and to call their act self serving, since outwardly this disease seems so self-imposing, but you should not underestimate how sick these people really are and how helpless they are to control the problem. They need help, not anger.