How long do you wait to call a girl?

When I was playing the field, I very rarely made "dates." It was more like, "I'll be here with my friends, if you and you and your friends are around, you should swing by or we could come meet you all." Pretty much, my litmus test for a real relationship was whether she got along with/could hang out with my friends, if not, they were there first and they'll be around after you. It was sink or swim pretty much right away.

If I was feeling like there could be something, then we'd go out on a date

I think adults like dates, but this is good advice for my son.. to meet at the movies with friends....

I think adults like dates, but this is good advice for my son.. to meet at the movies with friends....

I agree, I was more referring to parties/bars, but I could see where that may be a problem for 15 year olds, though.

Btw, did I correctly understand that your son thinks this girl is too hot for him?

I agree, I was more referring to parties/bars, but I could see where that may be a problem for 15 year olds, though.

Btw, did I correctly understand that your son thinks this girl is too hot for him?

I don't know if she's too hot for him, but he kept telling me how hot she is and seemed nervous and a little insecure about it. My son is a great looking kid 6ft, 170 - tall, dark and handsome. He shouldn't worry about how hot she is.. but I can't tell him that. He thinks I'm biased because I'm his mother.

I don't know if she's too hot for him, but he kept telling me how hot she is and seemed nervous and a little insecure about it. My son is a great looking kid 6ft, 170 - tall, dark and handsome. He shouldn't worry about how hot she is.. but I can't tell him that. He thinks I'm biased because I'm his mother.

That's one thing that has me a little concerned. I think his confidence could be a bit of an issue. Most guys will agree that confidence is the biggest thing in the world when talking to girls, that and paying attention to what they say. I don't know how many times we've had that conversation with friends of mine...I digress. I think I would really mess this situation up as a parent. I'd be like, "You're only 15, you're not going to marry this girl, don't put pressure on it, call her and see what she likes to do. Do that with her and have a good time with this. You're too young to get this worked up about it."

Now, to most people my age, they would probably agree that that's true, but it's probably the last thing in the world a guy/girl who's 15 wants to hear.

I'd be like, "You're only 15, you're not going to marry this girl, don't put pressure on it, call her and see what she likes to do. Do that with her and have a good time with this. You're too young to get this worked up about it."

Now, to most people my age, they would probably agree that that's true, but it's probably the last thing in the world a guy/girl who's 15 wants to hear.

Um, that's pretty much what I said to him... but I am trying to understand that in his mind it's a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine. I was just very curious what a man's perspective would be.

Um, that's pretty much what I said to him... but I am trying to understand that in his mind it's a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine. I was just very curious what a man's perspective would be.

Lol, was he like, "You don't understand, mom"?

Lol, was he like, "You don't understand, mom"?

of course.. he's 15. I won't understand until he's married with kids. THEN he'll appreciate me! :)

even at 15 if i like you then same or next day


But I am only 19 with a 5 year long girlfriend so what do i know?

Cant blame a guy for being nervous dating a girl too hot for him. Its intimidating at first, because at 15 you don't know that the dating pool is really full of wanker jerkoffs, and this chick, no matter how hot... really can't do better. She's lucky you're interested and thank god for that ass because if she didn't have it you wouldn't be interested and she'd be dating this guy, because she doesn't know any better:

http://www.photopox.com/Images/Insults/1163955324-douchebag.jpg

by the way, not to hijack, but if you are that guy, vegas wants you:

http://www.vegastripping.com/images/vegas.com-douchebag.jpg