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BleedBurgundy 01-04-2008, 02:43 PM If she gets them, make sure she gets them from a good doctor and that she doesn't get crazy big ones. I had two flat-chested friends who got huge implants and they've had so many problems. If you're an A cup and you go for the DD cups, you're body is going to say, "WTF!" Any doctor who says otherwise is a quack.
My one friend has had 3 surgeries to help build and maintain a "shelf" to support the big twins. She had to wear an ace bandage around her chest because the implants kept sinking (due to the lack of a proper "shelf") and her nips were resting on the top of her jugglies.
Aside from that, I can't offer any advice as to health concerns, breast feeding, etc. I believe, however, that the saline implants are pretty risk-free (although the surgery isn't) since your body can handle salt water.
No, I'm not even a ginormous breast guy... My wife is like 5'5" and 117 lbs so anything over a small C is going to be ridiculous.
BleedBurgundy 01-04-2008, 02:46 PM In general, I'm indifferent I suppose. But a close friend of mine had her's leak out the substance inside of her body. She's been battling different ailments for years as result and has a pending lawsuit against the company that manufactured the implants.
At the end of the day the real question your wife has to ask herself is, does she want a foreign substance inside her body for the rest of her life?
That's kind of been my point of contention on this thing. It might be great in the short term (aside from me not being able to stay awake at work) but it might be really bad in the long term.
saden1 01-04-2008, 03:34 PM Anything that's fake is a big turnoff for me. It's deceptive and it's not real. Fake boobs, nose, lips, ass....you name it, if it's fake I don't like it. If she was my wife I'd tell her "I love you just the way you are. I married you as you are and I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maybe she's planning to leave your ass? lol
Monkeydad 01-04-2008, 04:15 PM Just say no.
Maybe she's pursuing a new career.
Sheriff Gonna Getcha 01-04-2008, 04:29 PM Anything that's fake is a big turnoff for me. It's deceptive and it's not real. Fake boobs, nose, lips, ass....you name it, if it's fake I don't like it. If she was my wife I'd tell her "I you love her just the way you are. I married you as you are and I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maybe she's planning to leave your ass? lol
I'm generally down with that take on "fakeness" too, but only because they haven't gotten the fakies to look real enough. Plastic women just look desperate, cheap, and strange. Fake boobs are fine by me, provided they aren't crazy big.
I don't care about fakeness from a more principled level because women are already so fake. They wear makeup to accentuate their cheeks and eyes, concealer to hide their zits, heels to make them look taller, contacts to change their eye color, padded bras to make their twins look bigger, stockings to make their legs look smoother, lipstick and lipgloss to make their lips look prettier, etc.
jbcjr14 01-04-2008, 04:36 PM I have a friend and his wife had them done a few years back with no complication. His favorite saying is that "it's" the gift that keeps on giving!
Monksdown 01-04-2008, 04:36 PM I have never looked into it, but im sure you get what you pay for in regards to scarring. I could talk about breasts all day, i really could. Best pair, i dated a runner that had mid sized c's and they were oddly very firm. like muscular almost underneath. Very hot.
Does she want the boob job for you, or so more men will look at her? That's the question you've got to come to terms with.
If it's a self esteem issue, You can always post a picture of her boobs and we will make kind comments about them( Schneed wont...).
That think that would be best.
<Waiting for pictures>
JoeRedskin 01-04-2008, 07:50 PM I keep coming back to this thread in hopes that there will be boob pictures.
Yeah, I'm mature like that.
EternalEnigma21 01-04-2008, 08:35 PM I mean if they're gonna make her happy, why not... but make sure its a well thought out thing... kinda like getting that tattoo...
@Monksdown:
It really doesn't matter why she wants them... whether they're for him, or for her to feel better because she'll be getting more male attention. If its in her personality to base a level of satisfaction on attention from men, its not like not getting the implants is gonna change that...
I was just corrected by my wife... Everyone wants to be attractive. It has nothing to do with pleasing men, but when you look good you feel good, so that's that.
I'd like to take this opportunity to share a bit of wisdom along the topic of boobs. If you've got a hot doctor (female) and she's very nice and you think she's flirting with you... don't mistake a hernia check for an opportunity to cup a breast. Not worth the risk, because at that point she has to call in a witness, and the witness will know why he's there, and the situation is very uncomfortable all around... not at all like you would imagine it panning out.
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